Authenticity Do you feel accepted and liked for who you are or do you get the feeling your relationship partner is giving you pointers of who you should be?Law enforcement is one of the most difficult jobs around – it requires both physical grit and mental strength not only on the part of the professional but also his/her loved ones.You are not only sure to feel warm and safe with a person who you know is trained to take on anti-socials but as his/her partner you will even get to enjoy the respect from people who appreciate the important though difficult job a cop has.And then there is the glamour of the uniform – when dressed to the hilt in a ceremonial uniform, every cop looks his/her smartest best.Having dated several people who work in law enforcement, I’ve learned quite a bit. One of the things I initially loved when I dated a cop for the first time was how safe I felt with them.Not only do they care about your wellbeing, you know they also care about the wellbeing of those around them – it’s a nice feeling.First the good bit Law enforcement officials are trusted with perhaps one of the most important jobs of the civilized world – keeping the neighborhood and society safe.Thus it is a matter of great pride to be dating a cop.
We believe experiencing the early stages of a possibly long-term relationship with eyes wide open, a sense of purpose, and devotion to honestly assessing whether you and your significant other are an objectively good match are necessary to the lasting strength of the relationship.
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Dating can be fun but make no mistake: If commitment is what you are looking for dating is serious business!
If your relational intent is to search for a future spouse or life partner, this early dating stage of a relationship is crucial to the future of your marriage, your career and personal life, your yet unborn children, and ensuring the pension you hope to someday collect all winds up in the same bank account.
In last month's article, , we discussed the challenge of simply meeting good people to go out with, and then offered some suggestions to make meeting them easier while avoiding human landmines.