So tell him upfront you don’t expect to go to a movie afterward or talk in a coffee shop till midnight.
He’ll appreciate it and his respect for you will rise along with that appreciation.
If you want to make things work with a guy who is pressed for time, consider these three strategies. You’d be surprised how many busy men will love this idea.
There are dozens more ideas in my mini on this topic. Once he has figured out a time that would consistently work, he doesn’t have to think about it again.
“My options sometimes feel like it’s either work or Tinder,” one friend recently said to me, only half joking.
Busy guys respond well to repeated but brief interactions.
Research studies suggest that there are different kids of self-esteem.
Some people may have a secure sense of self, regardless of the situation, whereas others may have unstable or fragile self-esteem that varies depending on their last accomplishment or whom they are able to impress.
By getting rid of the potential to date people other people don’t find attractive, but we do, we’re increasing the competition around dating.
Priceonomics explain that if we’re all dating strangers, we’ll all be competing for physically attractive people and settling for those equal to us, rather than choosing people we personally find attractive after getting to know them (which would be less competitive, as other people might not appreciate their greatness).